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Rachel C. Smith

College of Education: Grand Canyon University

EDU-354-O502: Childhood Development: Prenatal to Adolescence

Kimberly Yates

10/26/2025

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Prenatal development and early childhood experiences lay the foundation for adolescent social and emotional development by shaping brain architecture, emotional regulation, and interpersonal skills. These early influences can have lasting effects on how adolescents manage stress, form relationships, and navigate complex social environments.

Early Childhood (Ages 2–6)

Social/Emotional Milestones - 
Developing empathy: Children begin to notice when others are upset and may offer comfort such as hugs or kind words).


Understanding emotions: They start to label their own feelings and recognize emotions in others.


Playing cooperatively: Around age 4–5, children engage in group play, take turns, and begin to follow rules.


Emotional regulation: Tantrums decrease as children learn that emotions are temporary and manageable.


Seeking approval: They often look to adults for praise and reassurance, which helps build self-esteem.

Middle Childhood (Ages 6–11)

Social/Emotional Milestones - 
Complex emotions: Children begin to experience mixed emotions- nervous and excited at the same time.
Perspective-taking: They understand that others may have different thoughts and feelings, which supports empathy and conflict resolution.
Friendship development: Peer relationships become more stable and emotionally meaningful.
Self-concept formation: Kids start to compare themselves to others and develop a sense of identity based on achievements and feedback.
Moral reasoning: They begin to grasp fairness, justice, and rules, often questioning authority or group norms.

Adolescence (Ages 12–18) 

Identity exploration: Teens question who they are and may experiment with roles, beliefs, and values.
Emotional independence: They seek autonomy from parents while still needing guidance and support.
Intense peer influence: Friendships and social acceptance become central to self-worth.

This is an age where young adults might feel inadequate and will compare themselves to what they see on social media. These comparisons can cause thoughts of suicide. 

The national hotline is 988. 

988 Lifeline - If you need emotional support, reach out to the national mental health hotline: 988.

As children grow, they experience key developmental milestones that shape their emotional well-being and social competence. Adolescents, for example, begin forming deeper emotional connections and exploring intimacy through romantic relationships. They also develop advanced coping strategies for stress, although emotional volatility remains common due to hormonal changes. Recognizing these milestones empowers educators, caregivers, and parents to nurture emotional growth at every stage.

Early Childhood (Ages 2–6): Emotional recognition, routine, and foundational self-regulation.
Emotion Charades Children act out emotions such as happy, sad, angry, or scared while others guess the feeling. This playful activity helps young learners identify and label emotions in themselves and others.
Visual Schedules and Routines Picture-based daily schedules help children anticipate transitions and reduce anxiety. These predictable structures foster emotional security and support the development of self-regulation.


Middle Childhood (Ages 6–11): Emotional expression, empathy, and interpersonal problem-solving.
Circle Time Check-Ins Start the day with a group discussion where students share how they are
feeling using emotion cards or a mood meter. This promotes emotional expression and builds a sense of classroom empathy.
Conflict Resolution Role-Play Students act out common peer conflicts and practice using “I” statements and active listening. These exercises strengthen problem-solving abilities and interpersonal skills.


Adolescence (Ages 12–18): Identity development, emotional awareness, and relationship building.
Journaling for Self-Reflection Provide prompts such as “What made you feel proud today?” or “How did you handle a challenge?” to encourage emotional insight and personal growth.
Peer Mentoring or Group Projects pair students to collaborate on tasks or mentor younger peers. These experiences build empathy, relationship skills, and a sense of responsibility while fostering self-regulation in the classroom.

Self-regulation

Self-regulation occurs when students are given the tools to help them moderate their behaviors. This gives them autonomy over their emotions, actions, and decision-making, empowering them to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively. When students learn to self-regulate, they gain the ability to pause, reflect, and choose appropriate strategies to manage stress, frustration, excitement, or distraction.

 

Examples of self-regulation:


A student is frustrated during a math test, instead of the student getting upset, breaking their pencil or tearing up the test remind them to do their mindful breathing exercises, “smell the flower, blow out the candle”.

Another student wants their turn during a group activity but instead of pushing in they sit on their hands as a calming technique. 

A teen sets a study schedule and sticks to it even though their friends asking them to go play basketball at the park.


Ways teachers can model and encourage self-regulation:
1. Model calm and reflective behavior by narrating social stories.

2.Teach goal-setting and planning by breaking tasks into manageable steps.

3.Use visual aids like checklists or charts to self-monitor and to reinforce planning.
4.Create predictable routines and safe spaces by consistent classroom activities and support emotional regulation.

5.Set up quiet-corners in the classroom to give students a space to reset when needed.
These strategies empower students to take ownership of their behavior and learning, building
lifelong skills for success.
Supporting social and emotional learning (SEL) and self-regulation at home is essential for
children’s overall development.

Early childhood: Emotional bonding, trust and early communication. Responsive caregiving, emotion labeling and predictable routines.
Middle childhood: Perspective-taking, emotional resilience and independence. Journaling, mindfulness moments, set goals together like tracking academic goals.

Adolescence: Identity, peer relationships and emotional regulation. Open communication, teach coping strategies like exercise and journaling and encourage perspective taking. Talk through social situations and explore how others might feel or think.

 

According to Ormrod et al. (2025), adapting instruction by modifying students’ work environments and schedules helps create equitable outcomes by equipping students with personalized supports that align with their developmental, emotional, and academic needs.
This approach acknowledges that students have diverse needs and learning styles, and therefore may not flourish under uniform conditions. By thoughtfully modifying the classroom environment, through options like flexible seating, quiet areas, or sensory-friendly zones, and by adapting schedules to include movement breaks, enrichment opportunities, or personalized pacing, educators can remove obstacles to learning and foster greater student engagement.

 

Zobiari’s statement (2025), “The influence of the environment and various activities cannot be overemphasized in its importance to cognitive development,” underscores the idea that learning does not happen in isolation but that it is deeply affected by the context in which a child grows; environments matters, activities shape thinking and cognitive growth is dynamic.

References

https://neurolaunch.com/social-emotional-development-stages/

 

Ormrod, J. E., Anderman, E. M., & Anderman, L. H. (2024). Educational psychology:
Developing learners (11th ed.). Pearson. ISBN-13: 9780137849314


https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/parenting-beyond-power/202506/guide-to-childrens-
social-emotional-milestones

 

988 Lifeline - If you need emotional support, reach out to the national mental health hotline: 988.


Zobairi, N., PhD, & Piotrowski, N. A. . P. D. (2025). Cognitive development.
Salem Press Encyclopedia of Health.